There are numerous encounters that men have with women or ladies in marriage or relationships.

Marriage is a divine plan, and entering into such an institution is a blessing.

God has established marriage rules.

Many people enter into marriages and then become dissatisfied with their spouse. Well, the Bible contains some characters who ended up betraying their husbands and making marriage a painful experience for them.

In this article, I've written about VASHTI, a popular queen, and Delilah, Sampson's girlfriend, so that we can remember who these people are.

Well, there are a lot of misunderstandings in many marriages that are being triggered by one entity, it's not always the ladies or women but most of the time it's the men as well, but in this article I've written about the ladies or women and in my next article I'll write about the men.

In Jesus' name, I pray that after reading this message, you will not become any of the characters you are reading about. Amen


Vashti is the queen of Ahasuerus, who was deposed from her royal throne because she refused to appear in the banqueting hall of Shushan the palace when the king summoned her (Esther 1:10-12)

This lady was truly fair in light of the fact that the spouse covered a ton of domains.

Ahasuerus the ruler ruled from India even unto Ethiopia, more than a 107 and twenty regions.

This King was an extremely extraordinary ruler and individuals regarded him, he had lords under him yet had a terrible spouse.

He made a gala and chose to welcome different rulers from different regions to simply come and see his riches. Then came every one of the sovereigns under his rulership, he got merried with wine and became inebriated that day.

Esther 1:10-20

[10]On the seventh day, when the heart of the king was merry with wine, he commanded Mehuman, Biztha, Harbona, Bigtha, and Abagtha, Zethar, and Carcas, the seven chamberlains that served in the presence of Ahasuerus the king,

[11]To bring Vashti the queen before the king with the crown royal, to shew the people and the princes her beauty: for she was fair to look on.

[12]But the queen Vashti refused to come at the king's commandment by his chamberlains: therefore was the king very wroth, and his anger burned in him.

[13]Then the king said to the wise men, which knew the times, (for so was the king's manner toward all that knew law and judgment:

[14]And the next unto him was Carshena, Shethar, Admatha, Tarshish, Meres, Marsena, and Memucan, the seven princes of Persia and Media, which saw the king's face, and which sat the first in the kingdom;)

[15]What shall we do unto the queen Vashti according to law, because she hath not performed the commandment of the king Ahasuerus by the chamberlains?

[16]And Memucan answered before the king and the princes, Vashti the queen hath not done wrong to the king only, but also to all the princes, and to all the people that are in all the provinces of the king Ahasuerus.

[17]For this deed of the queen shall come abroad unto all women, so that they shall despise their husbands in their eyes, when it shall be reported, The king Ahasuerus commanded Vashti the queen to be brought in before him, but she came not.

[18]Likewise shall the ladies of Persia and Media say this day unto all the king's princes, which have heard of the deed of the queen. Thus shall there arise too much contempt and wrath.

[19]If it please the king, let there go a royal commandment from him, and let it be written among the laws of the Persians and the Medes, that it be not altered, That Vashti come no more before king Ahasuerus; and let the king give her royal estate unto another that is better than she.

[20]And when the king's decree which he shall make shall be published throughout all his empire, (for it is great,) all the wives shall give to their husbands honour, both to great and small.

The king was hurt because the woman displayed such behavior, rejecting a whole king who ruled over such Princes and provinces. The king's face had changed to that of a fool.

When the king planned such a program, the woman planned her own. She was then thinking about what she had planned and ignoring the king's invitation to the banquet, oblivious to the fact that her programming is embedded in his. So the elders around the king moved with a law already in place to depose such queens, and they were successful; otherwise, others would learn from her and destroy their homes. Indeed, the king made a foolish decision by drinking excessively, as the Bible also mentions.

 Proverbs 20:1

[1]Wine is a mocker, strong drink is raging: and whosoever is deceived thereby is not wise.

She could never have entered in such a difficulty, I accept Vashti saw it to be a shame to submit to the kings welcome yet regardless of what it is really going after to save herself from the king's rage, she should simply act with shrewdness to free herself.

There are numerous ladies who dismisses their spouses openly and inside on the grounds that perhaps the man is doing what they are not for.

Ephesians 5:22-23

[22]Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

[23]For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

There are many better halves that rejects their husbands due to the fact they don`t meet their necessities. The great manner to get peace isn't always to behave in a manner that displeases others to get their attention. 

 If you do not have robust mindset, there are such a lot of matters which could take you off the wedding due to the fact you'll get verse for each unmarried thing. 

 The Vashti incarnate are lovely though, however will reject you while you do not meet their necessities at a factor in time. 

 There are many arguments approximately this Vashti tale, there are numerous individuals who praises her for what she did and plenty of are the use of her mindset as a tale to recommendation girl to live of their dating for good. 

 I will such as you to hold a non violent marriage. 

 Small recognize you supply will assist you preserve the dating. 

 These are their mindset in our cutting-edge days; 

 I. When you call them on phone they'll now no longer choose up 

 II. They will flip you down numerous instances until you surrender someday 

 Vashti Spirit is a rise up and dishonoring spirit. 

 I even have seen many wives dishonoring their husbands publicly and it bowled over me . 

 Don't be in that mode, it'll damage your home. 

 Many destructions comes while you dishonor the men. 

 There isn't  any guy who wants to be dishonor. 

We are to love you and you are to respect us. Women you don't love like we the men do, yours is to give reverence. There is no man that if you disgrace him, he will be happy inside. It's a fact!


Any Delilah that you marry will surely betray you for money or a reward. Most of them can be under pressure to do that, some may be from the Witchcraft camp and before you realize you are sold to your enemies. 

They already came from the camp of your enemies and it is easy for them to grasp you. 

They will stay with you for about years and all they want is your secrets so they turn against you

When you get into a relationship with such women, you put yourself in danger. They could be very attractive, acceptable, and adorable. They may join you in the prayer room several times, but they are there for a reason. They came from your enemies, and your enemies will request you from her one day. She will be forced to do whatever she has been assigned to do in your life, whether she likes it or not. Many Pastors, Bishops, and CEOs have married Delilahs, so they are fighting both physical and internal battles. There are women you marry, and your prayer life will never be revived, your fasting life will fail, and your Christian life will morph into something else you didn't like.

 They are in for your secretes. They don't love you anyway!!!

Marriage is not only a physical union but it's also spiritual. 

You have to be very conscious on both side. 

If Sampson had pray about her, had done many researches about her, had be careful about her, he would survive for long. You marry this women and you die before your time.

Judges 16:1,4-24

[1]Then went Samson to Gaza, and saw there an harlot, and went in unto her.

[4]And it came to pass afterward, that he loved a woman in the valley of Sorek, whose name was Delilah.

[5]And the lords of the Philistines came up unto her, and said unto her, Entice him, and see wherein his great strength lieth, and by what means we may prevail against him, that we may bind him to afflict him: and we will give thee every one of us eleven hundred pieces of silver.

[6]And Delilah said to Samson, Tell me, I pray thee, wherein thy great strength lieth, and wherewith thou mightest be bound to afflict thee.

[7]And Samson said unto her, If they bind me with seven green withs that were never dried, then shall I be weak, and be as another man.

[8]Then the lords of the Philistines brought up to her seven green withs which had not been dried, and she bound him with them.

[9]Now there were men lying in wait, abiding with her in the chamber. And she said unto him, The Philistines be upon thee, Samson. And he brake the withs, as a thread of tow is broken when it toucheth the fire. So his strength was not known.

[10]And Delilah said unto Samson, Behold, thou hast mocked me, and told me lies: now tell me, I pray thee, wherewith thou mightest be bound.

[11]And he said unto her, If they bind me fast with new ropes that never were occupied, then shall I be weak, and be as another man.

[12]Delilah therefore took new ropes, and bound him therewith, and said unto him, The Philistines be upon thee, Samson. And there were liers in wait abiding in the chamber. And he brake them from off his arms like a thread.

[13]And Delilah said unto Samson, Hitherto thou hast mocked me, and told me lies: tell me wherewith thou mightest be bound. And he said unto her, If thou weavest the seven locks of my head with the web.

[14]And she fastened it with the pin, and said unto him, The Philistines be upon thee, Samson. And he awaked out of his sleep, and went away with the pin of the beam, and with the web.

[15]And she said unto him, How canst thou say, I love thee, when thine heart is not with me? thou hast mocked me these three times, and hast not told me wherein thy great strength lieth.

[16]And it came to pass, when she pressed him daily with her words, and urged him, so that his soul was vexed unto death;

[17]That he told her all his heart, and said unto her, There hath not come a razor upon mine head; for I have been a Nazarite unto God from my mother's womb: if I be shaven, then my strength will go from me, and I shall become weak, and be like any other man.

[18]And when Delilah saw that he had told her all his heart, she sent and called for the lords of the Philistines, saying, Come up this once, for he hath shewed me all his heart. Then the lords of the Philistines came up unto her, and brought money in their hand.

[19]And she made him sleep upon her knees; and she called for a man, and she caused him to shave off the seven locks of his head; and she began to afflict him, and his strength went from him.

[20]And she said, The Philistines be upon thee, Samson. And he awoke out of his sleep, and said, I will go out as at other times before, and shake myself. And he wist not that the LORD was departed from him.

[21]But the Philistines took him, and put out his eyes, and brought him down to Gaza, and bound him with fetters of brass; and he did grind in the prison house.

[22]Howbeit the hair of his head began to grow again after he was shaven.

[23]Then the lords of the Philistines gathered them together for to offer a great sacrifice unto Dagon their god, and to rejoice: for they said, Our god hath delivered Samson our enemy into our hand.

[24]And when the people saw him, they praised their god: for they said, Our god hath delivered into our hands our enemy, and the destroyer of our country, which slew many of us.

God had warned the Israelites not to marry their enemies, so Sampson was first and foremost obstinate. He even married a harlot rather than a pure damsel.

Be cautious, vigilant, and watch!!! Many ladies are sent into your life to serve as spiritual CIDs.

Such ladies will entice you numerous times; such ladies will constantly ask you, search you, and do things based on condition rather than love; this should alert you that any lady who comes in with condition does not love you and may betray you one day.

 May God have mercy on us in Jesus name. God bless you❤️

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