How To Identify And Escape From Manipulators.

 How To Identify And Escape From Manipulators

How To Identify And Escape From Manipulators


In every location we can find ourselves, there are numerous manipulators at work. A manipulator targets your emotions and mind in order to acquire what they want from you. Manipulators are cunning, wicked, and incredibly secretive. To obtain what they want, they always take advantage of your weaknesses.
You will discover how to carry out their plans in this article.

A manipulator can be found in the church, the classroom, the office, and anywhere else where people congregate. To disrupt their plans, you must be aware of how they act.

Some people detect fast because they are spiritually inclined. When you are spiritually inclined, the spirit neglects, moans, or yearns within you as you draw closer to them.


You should be aware that they are also Satan's incarnates. Anyone who takes advantage of others is not of good character.


Because manipulation is oppression, the Bible condemns it. Manipulation also involves scamming, because you take advantage of others' emotions and mental states to get what you want from them. It is a deception, and it is the way of Satan, the ancient serpent.

Leviticus 25:17 (KJV)  Ye shall not therefore oppress one another; but thou shalt fear thy God: for I am the LORD your God.


1 Thessalonians 4:6 (KJV)  That no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified.


This is how to identify them:


1. Their Pretends


2 Corinthians 11:14 (KJV)  And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light.


They are incredibly deceptive; they are continuously showing you physical affection yet in their hearts they despise you. They come to you for a reason, just like Delilah did to Sampson. Delilah appeared to love Sampson, seducing him, kissing him, forcing Sampson to sleep on his laps, dining with him, but she was only in it for a short period.

They are, after all, angels of darkness who can convert into angels of light. It takes the Spirit to identify such persons through discernment. When you are with them, the Holy Spirit and even your soul do not like that relationship, and when you leave them, you realize you spoke things you should have kept secret from them. You always realize your faults, and the spirit within you warns you and gives you negative feelings about such a buddy while you are meditating or alone thinking.


2. They Seek Your Attention All The Time


Matthew 6:1 (KJV)  Take heed that ye do not your alms before men, to be seen of them: otherwise ye have no reward of your Father which is in heaven.

They always act with the intention of making men appreciate them.

They consistently demonstrate their righteousness in front of other people so that they can be well-respected.


They grab your attention, causing you to pay closer attention to them. They are capable of doing so many things to get your attention that you can mistakenly believe you have a close friend at all times. They will always remind you of something about themselves and assert that they are excellent and always correct; this is a trap designed to divert your attention from the truth. They can even offer you something when you have not asked for it. They always act with the intention of making men appreciate them.

They consistently demonstrate their righteousness in front of other people so that they can be well-respected.


They grab your attention, causing you to pay closer attention to them. They are capable of doing so many things to get your attention that you can mistakenly believe you have a close friend at all times. They will always remind you of something about themselves and assert that they are excellent and always correct; this is a trap designed to divert your attention from the truth. They can even offer you something when you have not asked for it.


3. They Are Not Of Christ But Of Themselves

Romans 16:18 (KJV)  For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple.

Everything they do is for themselves and not for Christ. so that they can obtain food, acquire the approval of their masters, and attract the attention of the people who look up to them. They might be instructors, coworkers, pastors, or prophets.

4. They are deceivers

Romans 16:18 (KJV)  For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple.

They have a tremendous capacity for lying. Because manipulators are mature like a soul winner should be and not traditional liars Satan's incarnates, anything they say to you will make you believe that they are entirely correct. Therefore, they are professional liars.


Their father is the very devil.

John 8:44 (KJV)  Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.



5. They Are Persistent

They are quite tenacious when trying to alter your behavior. They are really tenacious because they won't stop until they have destroyed you.

 Proverbs 4:16 (KJV)  For they sleep not, except they have done mischief; and their sleep is taken away, unless they cause some to fall.


If they want to teach you how to consume alcohol, they won't do it in a single day; instead, they'll persist until you give in, at which point they'll increase their level of persistence to the point where you might reject the truth. They'll also make sin seem normal to you, which will ultimately kill your spirit and your joy in the Holy Spirit.


6. They will make you feel guilty

They will make you feel guilty whenever you suspect them because they have already thought you through logically. Because you say you love God, they will constantly pressure you to accept them. They'll keep you there for a while and keep trying to seduce you.


7. They Are Mockers

They may criticize you and leave you with the impression that you have little potential, are imperfect, or have poor talent traits. They stir up skepticism and argumentative behavior in your head.

Proverbs 22:10 (KJV)  Cast out the scorner, and contention shall go out; yea, strife and reproach shall cease.


8. They Sow Seed Of Discord Among Your Other Friends and Behave They Are Perfect

Proverbs 6:16-19 (KJV)  These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him:

A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood,

An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief,

A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren.


9.They Can Be Jealous

They want all nice things to come their way alone and not through you; they want all wonderful things to happen to them alone. Why you and not them, they would question. They can act in so many ways and speak in so many ways that will demonstrate their enmity for you. They will talk about anything you are wearing. If their dress is nicer than yours, they won't talk about it much, but if yours is nicer, they'll talk about it nonstop all day long, ask you where you got it, how you got it, and look at it suspiciously while using other words.

They could get upset or irritated with you for no reason.

Proverbs 6:34 (KJV)  For jealousy is the rage of a man: therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance.


How To Escape 


1.You must fast and pray about them for the Lord to reveal them to you if you want to get out of this.


2. Pay attention to your spirit. When your spirit rejects your connection, take a break and go into hiding for a while to ask the Lord why.

Hebrews 5:13-14 (KJV)  For every one that useth milk is unskilful in the word of righteousness: for he is a babe.

Strong meat, on the other hand, belongs to those who are of legal age, including those whose senses have been trained through use to distinguish between good and evil.


3. If your problem seems complicated to you, seek out counselors who have a spiritual bent to assist you in solving it.

Proverbs 15:22 (KJV)  Without counsel purposes are disappointed: but in the multitude of counsellors they are established.

4. To avoid spending time with them, find something to keep you busy and let them know anytime they come to you.


5. Always say no when they want you to participate in something bad.


Proverbs 1:15 (KJV)  My son, walk not thou in the way with them; refrain thy foot from their path:


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