When it comes to relationships, many people, particularly men, are extremely rigid. 

Complimenting your mate is one technique to bring joy into your relationship on a daily basis. 

Rigid people in relationships are solely concerned with their primary obligations and do not go above and beyond to perform the most important things, such as complimenting their partner. 

You can compliment your wife or girlfriends beauty. There is nothing that can really make one feel more joyful than telling them you are very beautiful. 

I know is something many partners finds it very difficult to do but it shouldn't be that.

When you first get out of bed, let your prayers go before the Lord, and then, after acknowledging God in your day, turn to your partner and adore her as you would nature. Let her know she's still at the top of your priority list. This is just for married couples; married couples have the right to sleep in the same bed and share the same piece of cloth to cover themselves; if you are still dating, you are not allowed to sleep in the same bed as your future spouse. 

Please, as a married couple, do not be overly spiritual. God created all that exists to allow joy to remain that is good and accepted. It's a gift, so enjoy it as much as you can.

James 1:17

[17]Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning.

Allow your words to be so pleasant that they bring her smiles on a daily basis. When she dresses, don't hide it from her. 

 Easy-to-Read V

 1:8-11 He Speaks to Her You are such a beautiful woman. Surely you know what to do. Go, follow the sheep. Feed your young goats near the shepherds’ tents. My darling, you are more exciting to me than any mare among the stallions pulling Pharaoh’s chariots. Your cheeks are so beautiful with those ornaments hanging beside them. Your neck is so lovely under that beautiful string of jewels. Let’s make you some more gold jewelry and decorate it with silver.

I really know compliments works, do not flutter but speak the truth about the beauty, if you are fluttering she will know because any part of her body that look more beauty and attractive has been admired before, you are not the first person probably to compliment her true beauty and appearance so if you are fluttering she will know. 

If the dressing is not nice for you, look for a descent way and select the dress that looks nicer on her when she wears. 

Choose what you want her to wear, choose which footwear you want her to wear, and tell her today I want you to wear this because it looks good on you. Though other dresses may be more exquisite you are choosing that for her to show her how much you admire and love her appearance. It is a powerful love language that does not fail but rather promotes affection. 

Don't be harsh to her; instead, be respectful in your speech, and God will continue to bless your relationship with her. 

"YOUR CHEEKS ARE SO BEAUTIFUL WITH THOSE ORNAMENTS ON THEM." adore the neck, adore the teeth that you thought were gorgeous when you first met her. Some of your admiration for your wife dates back to when you were courting and on your honeymoon. The same attractiveness that made you feel more attractive to her following the purposeful reasons for marrying her should be maintained. 

Enable it to be on your lips; it will urge her to be more humble than she was before, and she will respect you much more.

Just be interesting, be more charming even with your words, don't be direct in the relationship or it will turn into a "Tom and Jerry Kind of Relationship"

 Song of Solomon 1:15 My darling, you are so beautiful! Oh, you are beautiful! Your eyes are like doves.

Easy-to-Read Version Song of Solomon 4:1-4,7 He Speaks to Her My darling, you are so beautiful! Oh, you are beautiful! Your eyes are like doves under your veil. Your hair is long and flowing, like little goats dancing down the slopes of Mount Gilead. Your teeth are white like ewes just coming from their bath. They all give birth to twins; not one of them has lost a baby. Your lips are like a red silk thread. Your mouth is beautiful. Your cheeks under your veil are like two slices of pomegranate. Your neck is long and thin like David’s tower. That tower was built to be decorated with a thousand shields on its walls, with the shields of powerful soldiers. My darling, you are beautiful all over. Every part of you is perfect.

Please, women or wives, do the same; don't be selfish when it comes to these things. You can get something more luxurious for your husband that will make him look more handsome, and tell him, "I found this while coming, and I know how handsome you are, and this ornament will really compliment you."

If you have more time than him in the morning, as he prepares for work,  please assist him dress, help him put on the tyre, and offer beautiful words to compliment him as you do so. Make him feel like he's the king.

Easy-to-Read Version Song of Solomon 1:2-3 She Loves Cover me with kisses, for your love is better than wine. Your perfume smells wonderful, but your name is sweeter than the best perfume. That is why the young women love you.

Yes, this shows if you don't learn how to love him well and compliment him, someone will see him at the street and compliment him very well and snatch him from you. 

Honour, don't give room to other women to honour and respect him more than you do, let him feel that goodness of your presence as a lady else someone will teach him and he may not come back from work place early. 

Don't be a rigid woman. 

God bless you for reading. If you have any questions, you can out them down below the comment section. 

Thanks a lot. 



By Philip Quateh

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